Affirmative action button on right, Dismissive on left …… unless affirmative is destructive?

I have had a question about the contradictory nature of the Apple HIG in regard to button placement in dialogs. They say that Affirmative action button on right (Print), Dismissive on left (Cancel), however they also say that the Cancel button should be the default action if the result is destructive.

But then they have an image of a destructive action where the cancel button is NOT the default button (https://developer.apple.com/design/human-interface-guidelines/macos/windows-and-views/alerts/)

They do state that we should 'consider' making cancel default in destructive cases which is my only idea why they are being contradictory in their image in that link, so that is non comital and vague.

Any ideas? Thanks